So as the holiday season is upon us, Holiday parties are a must! And this weekend I've had two!
Both were a lot of fun.
Friday Night was with my gay family, with a lot of gay people talking about gay issues and gay pop references.
Saturday Night was with a friend from high school, she's black, most of the people at the party were black. At this dinner party we talked about a variety of topics, such as education, teen pregnancy, community, culture, oppression, sex, etc.
Now, here's what I see is the big difference between the black community and the gay community (based on the issues that as talked about at social events):
There is a black community. Literally. Most of the people at the party last night lived in the neighborhood and their goals weren't lofty affirmative action/civil rights; they want to better their community by bettering their neighborhood. The talk last night was about things to better the neighborhood. For instance, how can they keep their neighborhood clean with no trash cans!
But what is the gay community. We don't live in neighborhoods. We're not going to schools where most of the students are gay. This goes back to a previous post of mine about culture. When we define ourselves by just a single trait, what is the connection beyond that?
The wonderful people I met last night, are honestly trying to make the best for their community (by bettering their neighborhood, giving the people on their street the opportunities to make the right choices!)
Check out my new favorite blog at Congress Heights On The Rise to see some of the positive outreach and community growth the blogger is trying to do to better the residents of Congress Heights, DC. Or my high school friend's Blog River East Idealist. (Map shows highlighed section of DC, called Congress Heights)